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A Guy Texted His Ex Right Before His Wedding And It’s Actually Really Wholesome

Most people break up and never hear from each other again. It’s just how most modern relationships work. Very rarely do ex-partners stay in touch, let alone acknowledge the impact that they had on each other. But the truth is, romantic relationships are incredibly important. Romantic partners help shape who you are, and so it’s a little strange that we usually lose touch with those important people.

One guy is changing all that. He texted his ex to let her know how grateful he is for their past relationship – and he did it the day before his wedding to another woman. A lot of people are really inspired by the thank you-text messages one woman got from her ex.

Alexsa Sanchez Aguilar (@_xolexc on Twitter) tweeted about some surprising texts she received.  At first, she didn’t even recognize the phone number, presumably because so much time had passed since she and her ex last spoke.

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_xolexc on Twitter

Once Aguilar realized it was her ex-boyfriend texting her, she asked him how he was. His response left her “speechless.”

He told her that was getting married the next day, and he wanted to thank her “for being my first love.”

He went on to say:

“Thank you for being my first love. Thank you for always encouraging me, thank you for keeping me out of trouble, thank you for the times you took care of me when I was sick, and depressed.”

Aguilar’s ex not only thanked her for all the time she spent helping him, but she also made sure to wish her the best and compliment her as well:

“The way your heart is made it’s amazing. To the man who is lucky enough to have you as their wife I hope he treats you with care, I hope he knows who he has in front o f him, I hope he shows you love and loyalty every day.”

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_xolexc on Twitter

Aguilar was so touched by the text exchange, she tweeted the screenshots.

In a comment to Tank’s Good News, Aguilar said that she’s taken an important lesson away from this experience:

“Regardless of everything you should have respect towards someone you have a strong history with.”

Aguilar echoed that same sentiment in her response to her ex. She wrote to him:

“I’m happy you found the woman you want forever with. I’m happy you’re happy.”

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_xolexc on Twitter

Some of the reactions to the exchange show that a lot of people don’t fully understand it.

But, most of the replies show that people are just as touched by this exchange as Aguilar is.

Some people are wondering why this couple didn’t work out in the first place, and Aguilar explained that they were very young but went through some emotionally trying times together.

Aguilar seems to have a lot of peace about the situation, as she expressed in one final tweet about it.

People come in and out of our lives all the time, so Aguilar’s way of thinking about her past relationship is really mature. Maybe all relationships would be better if all ex-partners could communicate the way these two do.

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